Life is a wealth: there is no other wealth then life itself; it has all the forces of love, happiness and praise.
It is not a first incident of its kind of modern time’s parents. Our relatives and family members who are settled abroad their kids even have unlawful relations as well. They are even alcoholic and play games of chance. (I am writing with great care but if someone does not like it then I apologize in advance but it’s the truth.
Respected Hazrat Hakeem Sahab Asalamoalikum! I am very happy to write this letter, the loan that we took from the bank we paid off this month. Even though we had one year’s installments still left. But husband paid it off by adding some extra amount to his pay of this month. We are now free from paying interest. Although this month we are in hand to mouth situation but we are happy that we got rid of interest. This is all because of being connected to tasbeeh khana and doing amal.
With a heavy heart I am penning an incident for the readers. A friend of mine who is a teacher her daughter is a friend of my daughters. In my friends house mobile phone, tablets and facebook are used widely. My daughter’s friend has friendships with a lot of boys and a lot of time she gets gifts from them as well. Alhumdulilah with the blessing of Allah in my home there is no such thing I have plain 2000 rupee cell phone which does not have touch screen. It does not have facebook, whatsapp or any sort of chat. My daughter is best friends with her maternal grandmother. My daughter told the following things to her grandmother and this has been going on for about six months. On last chand raat when my daughter went to her friend’s place a few boys came up to their door and gifted her friend some gifts and said eid Mubarak. All this happened in front of neighbors and relatives. I kept quite initially but her mother is a dear friend of mine and so I decided to inform her, because her parents are very religious and practicing Muslims. But our friendship got tested when my friend told her daughter not to share such secrets with friends who can’t keep them. She was hinting at my daughter. This ended the friendship between my daughter and her friend. But the audacity of the mother daughter that they blamed my daughter and broke ties with her. And my friend’s daughter told her school mates with proudly that my mother didn’t say anything to me but its well known fact now that you cannot keep any secret. These girls are only 14 years old. The mother and I still meet but its not the same anymore. It is not a first incident of its kind of modern times parents. Our relatives and family members who are settled abroad their kids even have unlawful relations as well. They are even alcoholic and play games of chance. (I am writing with great care but if someone does not like it then I apologize in advance but it’s the truth. But parents say to their kids that do whatever you want to do but be careful and do not tell anyone because this will ruin our image in Pakistan. I am so mad at all this. Now I am even scared of giving someone any advice. i am really saddened by the fact that my friend’s daughter has gone on the wrong path just because her mother taught her do whatever you want. May Allah protect her and our kid’s honours. Questions arises from within me that if we have practiced all the religious aspects of our religion but we have not taught and brought up our kids according to the teachings of Islam, we have not taught them respect, adolescent girls are not being taught to cover their head, we have bought them android mobiles but never ask them how they are using it or for what purpose. For God sake please save your future generations otherwise you’ll lose everything in the name of status. My views might have offended someone so I apologize for that but I have written about what I have seen in our society.
